yes – processing new students

please read this, if you are interested in working with me for the first time.

To work with me as a student is a journey. It all begins with our first contact.  How far, how long, how deep we go depends on your learning comfort, and my ability to assist you.  Ultimately you are responsible for your own enlightenment, I am here as a teacher, guide, councilor, healer.   Sometimes people want to connect with me briefly, some students work in-depth.

What I don’t offer, is walk in the door, wham bam thank you mam intimacy.  To even expect this is completely counter to what I teach, and what tantra is about.

 

when we do meet for the first time, in person…

We will likely touch lightly, like hugs, foot rubs, and partner stretches.  I offer exercises, with breath, sound, eyes, touch, energy, awareness, guided meditation.  We work with where you are at, set a clear direction and take steps forward.  If you are hurting, then we may work on clearing pain and blockages.  If you are looking for knowledge and learning, then we find your edge and advance.

If I am traveling, I may meet you in public first, for a few minutes and then go into private space once we are comfortable together.  I sometimes request a phone meeting before accepting a new student into private space.

 

the next session…..

Sometime people want to meet me once, and they are complete.  I have helped alot of people connect the dots, make amazing breakthroughts, activate and move on.  As they say when the student is ready the teacher appears, so I show up this way for people too.  I’m happy to serve as a catalyst in this way, because I do believe tantra is an atunement of energetic balance;  some times people just need to connect with me once, to activate their conscious awareness.

Because my private session time is so precious, I am cautious to screen out passing pleasure seekers, looking for a fantasy fulfilled or new flavor tasted.  I find this type of mentality unfulfilling… like a bee sniffing every flower, or a drunk bachelor at a strip club wanting every type of girl to rub into him.

I also offer (more and more) public classes where students can easily access my tantric education, guidance, experience and atunement.

My ongoing students typically work with me bi-weekly, monthly,or  seasonally over the course of several months to a year(s).

ongoing work…

Because my time for private work is limited, I carefully select my ongoing students based on several factors.  Some of the factors ARE NOT – age, race, ethnicity, weight, looks, smell.  Some of the factors ARE – sincerity, level of need and my ability to help, willingness to learn and grow.

Usually students and I work together to clarify our intention for further work, and sketch out together what our next meeting(s) will look like. This is especially true if we are venturing into erotic or physical intimate space.   I also journey with students for a while, in undefined space … assisting them to find clarity, soul, purpose, direction and fulfillment.

While I don’t offer drop in intimacy, many students view me as a delicious cross-roads councilor, between their wives, lovers, escorts and other options… I’m the one you bring it all to, and lay it all down, and see whats really going to work for your overall happiness…  sometimes it takes time for this peace to arrive.

I sometimes give students homework assignments, small breathing exercises, positive visualizations, affirmations, short meditations and contemplations.  How students respond to their homework, helps me to guide their progress.

 

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