These are stories about bursting the bubble of Fantasy. So many of us struggle with these illusions of wishful thinking. Let's get a genuine view of what is happening in the world of the perceived "muse". In the pursuit of instant gratification reality can be an insightful teacher. Here we share three real life stories - and frustrations - in some of the most common provider fantasies. What you see is not always what you get ... lets look together behind the scenes ...