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Forest of Delight
Visit my new fall gallery for poetry and photos of ocean, naked with leaves and trees, reaching out for unity … see my longing to be seen, in the forest of delight, day flows into night, a force of life, beyond our dreams …
Grasp the Ocean… Poetry
sink into me
let me rock you
as your cares fall away
watch them sink
like clay stones
dissolving thru the depths
of unneeded and unknown …
Finding Your Bliss
What is Bliss? Why have we forgotten it? If I told you that it was a natural state of being would you believe me?
If you doubt for a moment that bliss is natural, watch a baby delight in holding its toes! Just as your mind can control your body to sit down and stand up, you can train your body to relax and feel bliss. Let me show you, and remind you, how to tap in. It is a natural state of mind and body in balance, pleasure and flow. Perhaps you have just overlooked what was always there.
Porn, Addiction & the Road to Hell
We all have them, whether it’s chocolate or cocaine, shoe shopping or porn watching, we have subtle things that we render harmless, or think that everyone else is doing it, so what’s the big deal. The bottom line is… sexual energy is very, very powerful, and what you focus on expands. Porn can trap you into increasing dissatisfaction… learn how to get free.
Kama Sutra I – Beyond Sexual Positions
The Kama Sutra is consider the foremost book on sexual positioning; but sex is just one small part of what the book introduces its readers to. Sex is primal. Sexual energy is sacred. Sexual pleasure can be healing and transformative. Often called The Karma Sutra, Kama Suta and my favorite The Karmel Sutra. An educational and enlightening three part series discussing this important text.
Disarming the Wounded Masculine
Men, throughout their life, are taught to bury their emotions, be strong, not cry, that bravery and manliness is about holding back your feelings. This is a real problem for many men, this is a cultural conditioning that causes us to deny what is human and natural.
The problem is these hurts don’t go away, instead they only sink deeper in. Men can feel hurt and weak inside, while appearing heavily armored on the outside; this effects intimacy and loving connection. Perhaps it’s time to consider disarmament?
Our First Disclaimer – We are not exactly straight
Please excuse what appears to be a heterosexual bias. We are not exactly straight. We know that gender can flow and that people are not fixed into rigid black and white roles. However, in order to explain Tantric Concepts, it is helpful to have these stereotypes.
So we use gender roles, in a rather traditional, fixed masculine and feminine way. We appear rather straight. And we do this to make our examples very clear. This is the simplest way for you to understand the teachings.
I Don’t Make You Come …
Here is your most vital lesson in self-sourcing pleasure…
I don’t turn you on … I don’t get you off … I don’t make you come … I don’t excite or arouse you … Any more than I make you sneeze, cough, blink or giggle. You do this!
No matter how compelled, or inspired we are to look outside, the source is within our self. Noticing is the first step. This is high level awareness, to realize your source is within.
Lust and Liberation
When we approach sex as a physical need that drives us to release, we confuse that release with satisfaction. Compare a sexual experience infused with objective gratification, with its opposite, an experience based in bliss. Feeling bliss, feeling ecstasy, feeling good coincides with good relating, good experiences, good sharing and good sex.
Pathways of Pleasure – Sex Energy & Orgasmic Blueprints
We’re spiritual beings inside animal bodies and for better or worse, our orgasmic patterns get locked into our bodies. To procreate the human race, we only need one way to come, but for pleasure and spiritual expansion we want to increase our repertoire. Understanding how we can get stuck in a pattern is the first step to liberation.