Here is your most vital lesson in self-sourcing pleasure...
I don’t turn you on … I don’t get you off … I don’t make you come … I don’t excite or arouse you … Any more than I make you sneeze, cough, blink or giggle. You do this!
No matter how compelled, or inspired we are to look outside, the source is within our self. Noticing is the first step. This is high level awareness, to realize your source is within.